You’ve carried this long enough. You're allowed to put it down.
For those who feel disconnected, numb, or like they’ve lost their way — I help you feel again, see clearly, and reclaim what’s meaningful.
You don’t need fixing. You need space to feel, clarity to see, and support to reconnect with the truth already inside you.
Life can feel heavy when you’re constantly pushing, second‑guessing yourself, or feeling like you’re working harder than everyone else just to stay afloat.
My work is about creating safety, clarity, and space — so you can reconnect with who you are beneath the stress, expectations, and pressure, and begin making choices that actually feel right for you.
Scott Holdem, Purpose and Welbeing Coach
Lets Explore the Field
A free conversation with Scott to ask questions, and see if this space is right for you
Unearth Your Potential
A single, focused session to gain clarity, move through what’s stuck, and reconnect with your own wisdom
Sow the seeds ot transformation
Discover who you are, gain confidence, and start living in alignment.
A Space for Energetic Awakening.
I work with people who are tired of feeling stuck, drained, or out of alignment with their own lives.
Together, we slow things down, clear what’s getting in the way, and build trust in your own inner guidance — so you can move forward with confidence rather than force.
This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about understanding how you’re wired and learning how to live in a way that supports your nervous system, energy, and sense of purpose.
Discover Yourself. Gain Confidence. Start Living.
This 6‑month personalised coaching journey is for people who know something needs to change, but aren’t quite sure where to start — or are tired of trying to think their way out of the same patterns.
Over 12 sessions, we’ll explore how you’re naturally designed to operate, why life and relationships respond to you the way they do, and what’s been blocking you from moving toward a life that feels satisfying and alive.
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Clarity about who you truly are and how your energy works
Insight into why certain challenges and relationship patterns keep repeating
Confidence in your own decision‑making and inner authority
Tools to clear internal blocks and reduce overwhelm
A stronger sense of direction, grounded in what actually lights you up
This journey is spacious, grounded, and practical — designed to create real change that carries into everyday life.
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12 one‑on‑one sessions over 6 months (typically fortnightly)
Sessions are 90 minutes, allowing time for understanding, reflection, and integration
In‑person or online options available
A blend of Human Design, Gene Keys, somatic work, NLP, and relational safety practices
Optional additional 1:1 sessions available if you’d like extra support
Each session builds on the last, creating a steady path from clarity → confidence → self‑trust.
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This programme may be a good fit if you:
Feel constantly tired or like you’re pushing uphill
Sense there’s more to life but can’t quite access it
Struggle with decision‑making or self‑doubt
Want direction without being told who to be or what to do
Are ready to move toward pleasure, satisfaction, and alignment — not just away from pain
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By the end of this journey, most people feel:
More grounded and at ease in themselves
Clearer about who they are and what matters to them
Confident making decisions that feel right
Energised to move forward in life with purpose and intention
Ready to Begin?
If this resonates, trust that.
Book your first session now and begin the process of discovering yourself, gaining confidence, and starting to live in a way that truly supports you.
How I help you move from tension
Step 1
Your journey within the welcoming embrace of the Healing Barn begins with establishing a deep sense of grounded safety. Through Somatic Therapy, we'll gently guide you to connect with the wisdom of your body, releasing stored tension and cultivating a secure inner foundation. Complementing this, IFS (Internal Family Systems) helps you understand and harmonize the various parts of yourself, fostering inner peace and a stable sense of self from which to explore further.
A free, no-obligation conversation to see if coaching is right for you.
Step 2
With a sense of safety established, we then move towards releasing the burdens of the past. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) offers a powerful yet compassionate way to process and integrate challenging memories, allowing their emotional intensity to soften and dissipate. Alongside this, NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) empowers you to reframe limiting beliefs and patterns linked to past experiences, enabling you to rewrite your internal narrative and step forward with a renewed sense of freedom.
Gain immediate clarity and a powerful first step forward.
Step 3
Finally, as you shed what no longer serves, we'll illuminate your path towards authentic purpose and a fulfilling present. Hypnotherapy can gently access your subconscious mind, uncovering deeply held values and aspirations that guide your true direction. Human Design provides a unique and practical map to understand your inherent energetic blueprint, empowering you to align with your authentic self. Throughout this journey, Health Coaching offers grounded support for your overall well-being, ensuring your mind, body, and spirit are integrated as you step into a life of purpose, nurtured within the supportive environment of the Healing Barn.
Deep dive into lasting transformation and create sustainable change.
Listening to Their Inner Tide: Experiences in the Healing Barn.
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The Magic of Letting Go
I suffer from rheumatoid arthritis and was on weekly injections that never really made me feel better but kept me from feeling worse! Scott has the most incredible healing powers and unlocked a lot of pain and trauma for me that was trapped in my body. Not only did it help with my body pain but it brought me a lot of mental clarity as the trauma was being released. With each session my attitude got better as did my pain. It’s scary at first to trust and allow yourself to let go and be vulnerable but the more willing you are to let go the easier it is for Scott to work his magic. It has been incredibly pivotal for me and I intend to go back! Have just been so full on with life. It’s one of those things you need to make time for!
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Grateful for Being Pain-Free
I was recommended to try contact care to resolve an injury so I booked in an appointment with Scott. Within 2 sessions my injury was fully resolved and I am very grateful for being pain free now. I learned a lot about the mind emotion body connection from Scott and continue to apply those principles to my daily life. I highly recommend anyone who is experiencing pain to try contact care as it complements many other health care practices and gives great results.
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A Truly Safe and Welcoming Space to Heal.
Scott and Melissa are amaizing. They take the time to listen and understand you. I felt really safe and welcome. They both took the time to help me understand what I’m feeling and let those feelings go. I feel happier and safer and I’m Evan more productive at work and at home. Thankyou
Lets Eplore The Field
Explore your possibilities in a free conversation with Scott.
Unearth Your Potential
Respond to your inner call: Book a one off focused session.
Sow the seeds of transformation.
Invest in lasting transformation: Book your 6 month package.
What happened to you is real. But it doesn’t have to be the lens you see life through anymore.
Explore The Whole Barn
Lets Have a Chat
If you are not sure where to start we can provide you with an initial consultation where we will map out a plan for you of the most appropriate treatments for your specific needs. Most of our sessions include an intuitive guide at the start to ascertain the best treatment for you.
Emotion, body & belief Code
If you have unresolved issues that are giving you symptoms but nothing helps, if you feel like something is holding you back but you can't put your finger on it, Emotion Code, Body Code or Belief Code can help.
nLP & hypnotherapy
Increase your self-confidence and improve your relationships by overcoming your fears & phobias. Improve your self-awareness & emotional intelligence plus boost your productivity and reduce your stress levels.
ConTact CARE
When you have pain and pressure in your body that causes restricted movement, recurring injuries, a body locked in a certain position, and you want to regain mobility and freedom back into your life ConTact CARE can help.