You’ve carried this long enough. You're allowed to put it down.
For those who feel disconnected, numb, or like they’ve lost their way — I help you feel again, see clearly, and reclaim what’s meaningful.
You don’t need fixing. You need space to feel, clarity to see, and support to reconnect with the truth already inside you.
For years, Melissa and I were deep in the dairy industry. We poured ourselves into it, believing it was our path and passion. But ironically, the harder we pushed, the more overwhelmed we became. The workload was endless, and we were constantly striving, convinced this was the only way. This felt like the endless push of Gate 35 from Human Design, always seeking new experiences and progress, but without true fulfillment. We kept going until one day, a clear moment hit: enough was enough.
The only way to recover wasn't to push even harder. It was to find stillness. It meant bravely looking at what truly wasn't working and facing the tension we'd been avoiding. This wasn't about being fixed, but about allowing ourselves to stop struggling and find our own unique way forward. This personal journey, from constant pushing to embracing what truly lights us up, is the very essence of my Gate 8, the Gate of Contribution. By embodying this process—taking authentic, individual steps guided by our inner truth—we found our path. And now, I help others illuminate their own way to profound transformation, creating a personal oasis of clarity, peace, and power.
Scott Holdem, Purpose and Welbeing Coach
Lets Explore the Field
A free conversation with Scott to ask questions, and see if this space is right for you
Unearth Your Potential
A single, focused session to gain clarity, move through what’s stuck, and reconnect with your own wisdom
Sow the seeds ot transformation
A 3-session journey for deep inner work - supporting long-held patterns to gently unravel, and new pathways to take root
A Space for Energetic Awakening.
Find a safe and solid place here to make real changes, step by step. More than just talking, I gently guide you to get unstuck from tough feelings and see things more clearly. You'll have support to look at what you tend to avoid, so your own truth can slowly appear, and your energy can find a more balanced and easy flow.
How I help you move from tension
Step 1
Your journey within the welcoming embrace of the Healing Barn begins with establishing a deep sense of grounded safety. Through Somatic Therapy, we'll gently guide you to connect with the wisdom of your body, releasing stored tension and cultivating a secure inner foundation. Complementing this, IFS (Internal Family Systems) helps you understand and harmonize the various parts of yourself, fostering inner peace and a stable sense of self from which to explore further.
A free, no-obligation conversation to see if coaching is right for you.
Step 2
With a sense of safety established, we then move towards releasing the burdens of the past. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) offers a powerful yet compassionate way to process and integrate challenging memories, allowing their emotional intensity to soften and dissipate. Alongside this, NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) empowers you to reframe limiting beliefs and patterns linked to past experiences, enabling you to rewrite your internal narrative and step forward with a renewed sense of freedom.
Gain immediate clarity and a powerful first step forward.
Step 3
Finally, as you shed what no longer serves, we'll illuminate your path towards authentic purpose and a fulfilling present. Hypnotherapy can gently access your subconscious mind, uncovering deeply held values and aspirations that guide your true direction. Human Design provides a unique and practical map to understand your inherent energetic blueprint, empowering you to align with your authentic self. Throughout this journey, Health Coaching offers grounded support for your overall well-being, ensuring your mind, body, and spirit are integrated as you step into a life of purpose, nurtured within the supportive environment of the Healing Barn.
Deep dive into lasting transformation and create sustainable change.
Listening to Their Inner Tide: Experiences in the Healing Barn.
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The Magic of Letting Go
I suffer from rheumatoid arthritis and was on weekly injections that never really made me feel better but kept me from feeling worse! Scott has the most incredible healing powers and unlocked a lot of pain and trauma for me that was trapped in my body. Not only did it help with my body pain but it brought me a lot of mental clarity as the trauma was being released. With each session my attitude got better as did my pain. It’s scary at first to trust and allow yourself to let go and be vulnerable but the more willing you are to let go the easier it is for Scott to work his magic. It has been incredibly pivotal for me and I intend to go back! Have just been so full on with life. It’s one of those things you need to make time for!
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Grateful for Being Pain-Free
I was recommended to try contact care to resolve an injury so I booked in an appointment with Scott. Within 2 sessions my injury was fully resolved and I am very grateful for being pain free now. I learned a lot about the mind emotion body connection from Scott and continue to apply those principles to my daily life. I highly recommend anyone who is experiencing pain to try contact care as it complements many other health care practices and gives great results.
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A Truly Safe and Welcoming Space to Heal.
Scott and Melissa are amaizing. They take the time to listen and understand you. I felt really safe and welcome. They both took the time to help me understand what I’m feeling and let those feelings go. I feel happier and safer and I’m Evan more productive at work and at home. Thankyou
Lets Eplore The Field
Explore your possibilities in a free conversation with Scott.
Unearth Your Potential
Respond to your inner call: Book a one off focused session.
Sow the seeds of transformation.
Invest in lasting transformation: Book your 3-session package.
What happened to you is real. But it doesn’t have to be the lens you see life through anymore.
Explore The Whole Barn
Lets Have a Chat
If you are not sure where to start we can provide you with an initial consultation where we will map out a plan for you of the most appropriate treatments for your specific needs. Most of our sessions include an intuitive guide at the start to ascertain the best treatment for you.
Emotion, body & belief Code
If you have unresolved issues that are giving you symptoms but nothing helps, if you feel like something is holding you back but you can't put your finger on it, Emotion Code, Body Code or Belief Code can help.
nLP & hypnotherapy
Increase your self-confidence and improve your relationships by overcoming your fears & phobias. Improve your self-awareness & emotional intelligence plus boost your productivity and reduce your stress levels.
ConTact CARE
When you have pain and pressure in your body that causes restricted movement, recurring injuries, a body locked in a certain position, and you want to regain mobility and freedom back into your life ConTact CARE can help.